You’re between a sword and a wall. You have time to travel but you don’t want to go to just any place, but to an exotic, distant place. The problem is that nobody wants to accompany you because they say it is dangerous or that it is far away. You have doubts, fear to feel alone.
Finally you end up joining others because you do not dare to travel alone. You have lost the opportunity. Sound familiar? Yes, it also happened to me several times. But when I was about to graduate from university, the opportunity arose to travel to Germany to study exchange. At first I thought about how unfortunate it was going to be because no one was with me and I was going to be alone all the time.